By Guest Blogger: Michael McCarthy
The chance for a meaningful relationship is always within reach; you just need to recognize it, choose it, and nurture it. Like a cherished flower, a relationship deserves care and attention to grow and prosper. So, what are the essential elements to cultivate this relationship? Here’s a list of vital ingredients for creating that ideal partnership:
1. **Gratitude**
Each day, express gratitude for the special person in your life and the love you share.
2. **Forgiveness**
Be ready to forgive and release any disappointments. Avoid casting judgments in your relationship.
3. **Honesty**
Foster transparency and refrain from judging one another.
4. **Appreciation**
Notice and praise the small and seemingly insignificant aspects of your partner.
5. **Positivity**
Focus on the positive and exhilarating parts of your relationship.
6. **Perspective**
Maintain a balanced view of your relationship’s happenings.
7. **Teamwork**
Treat each other with respect, ensuring neither partner is taken for granted.
8. **Humor**
Keep things light-hearted and fun; don’t take each other too seriously.
9. **Kindness**
Be considerate and kind in your interactions.
10. **Perseverance**
Never give up on the person who means so much to you.
11. **Creativity**
Seek new ways to bring excitement and awareness into your relationship.
12. **Learning**
Every day, discover something new and wonderful about your partner’s love.
Work on these aspects in your relationship, and consistently choose and appreciate the elements that make it special. Cherish each moment to avoid any regrets for what might have been missed.
As Kahlil Gibran wisely said, “Wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of love.” Watch this relationship blossom before you.
Michael McCarthy
Sound Coaching
Lead Coach/Counsellor
Bio:
Michael, who earned a Master’s Degree in the Science of Human Behavior from the University of Toronto, has been a life skills coach for over 30 years. His company, Sound Coaching (www.soundcoaching.ca), provides coaching in various areas. Michael brings compassion, empathy, and an ability to support his clients, helping them live life to the fullest.
Check out Michael McCarthy’s previous guest post: *6 Human Needs to Make Love Last Forever.*
